Before The Funeral: Viewings, Wakes And Visitations
A common practice in many cultures is to spend time with the body before the funeral or disposition.
A viewing (also called a wake) may be brief and take place immediately before the funeral service, or may last for up to three days before the service. A visitation can take place any time, before or after the funeral service or disposition, and can last for hours or days.
Basic Features Of A Viewing Or Wake
- The body is on display in a casket
- The casket may be open or closed
- Takes place at the funeral home, your own home, or the social hall at a religious place of worship
- Takes place before the funeral and disposition
- May be family-only or open to the public
Basic Features Of A Visitation
- The casket is closed or the body is not present at all
- Takes place at the funeral home, your own home, or the social hall at a religious place of worship
- May take place before or after the funeral and disposition
Cost Of A Viewing Or Visitation
If you will be holding a viewing or visitation at a funeral home, the funeral home may charge you for use of the facility and room set-up. Some funeral homes will charge by the day while others will charge by the hour. If you will be holding a viewing or visitation at a location other than the funeral home, the funeral home may charge you for set-up and transportation services.
Personal Advocacy
Be aware that many funeral homes will require that the body be embalmed if a viewing or wake is to take place. If you do not want the body to be embalmed, consider finding a funeral home that does not require embalming in the event of a viewing or wake.
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